We are the bosses of our lives, our fears set our limits.

Forever Grateful for the oppunity to be aParent and role model. So many parents today have good intentions but are ruining sports for their kids. Which is hurting their personal relationship with their kids. I work with my son daily on improving athletically. It always starts with me wanting him to be great and sometimes ends with him upset and crying because I let my good intentions turn into frustration and flat out mean. Which leaves us both in bad moods, his mother pissed

Build them up, make them feel so confident to where they know each failure just puts them closer to their next success.

Imaginal Experiences: Psychologist James Maddux has suggested a fifth route to self-efficacy through “imaginal experiences”, the art of visualising yourself behaving effectively or successfully in a given situation. We all do it and it’s a great thing. Watch your favorite players, visual yourself doing what they do, then go do it. Practice, practice, practice. Yell jordan for the win and change the scenario until you win. Hit that bases loaded 2 outs bottom of the 9th walk of